Rahul's space

My Dear Son, Daugther, Nephew and Niece

You are now growing up and sooner or later your will embark on your professional journey  and for that people will wish you Midas touch, good luck, good wishes and much more…..

But I will not do that …. instead…

I hope that from time to time in years to come u will be treated unfairly in your good times so that u build inner strength to withstand the same during your bad times and also u will come to know the value of fair practices and justice. 

I hope u will suffer betrayal and be bigoted by someone when surrounded by well wishers  so that u learn the ways to fight it out when u are alone and that will teach you the importance of loyalty. 

I hope u will be lonely time to time so that u understand the value of family and friends and will not take them for granted.

I hope that you will encounter bad luck sometimes so that u understand the role of luck and chance in your success, and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others are completely deserved either. U must  learn that every penny of success you earn is not all yours it has a share  of  each member of your family, friends, society, school, college and The nation.

I also wish that when you loose, as you will time to time, your opponent will celebrate over your failure and that was a time to understand the true meaning of sportsmanship. 

You will be ignored, sequestered so that u can experience the pain of someone you are ignoring.

And I wish u will have just enough pain so that it can make you compassionate

Whether I or anyone can wish this or not they are going to happen, whether you are benefited from them or not is mainly depend on your attitude towards them and your ability to read the message in your misfortunes.  

I hope u understand what ever I have said but that is not important any one can understand what ever is said .The more important is that whether you understood, what ever is not aforesaid. 

I hope u can see what ever is around you and shown to you but that’s not important. The more important is that you develope a capability of seeing what is not shown. 

You can win only when you will be able to listen the unspoken and you see the unseen.

I wish you will not Relax during your good times instead prepare your self to stand tall and invincibly strong in the time of need.

I wish that you will grow BIG enough, that no one will feel small whenever he or she  meets you….

Yours 

Rahul